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As requested by our readers, we’re re-posting this………….for Mothers everywhere…….Mahalo for asking!

 

MOMS and NETWORKERS

Mom doesn’t know anything about Network Marketing ……I think when she asks me how my business is going.

I think she doesn’t understand it …..maybe it’s me that doesn’t understand.

MOM taught me everything I needed to know to build a network marketing business, she gave me network marketing skills.

MOM

Mother’s Day.  Don’t we all feel like we should do a little more all year for Mom?

Would it really kill us to go to Mom’s house and leave the cell phone in the car, have a cup of coffee and just be ‘present’?

Can’t make up for the past, you know, all those times we’re a ‘little to busy’ to just visit?

She was never too busy for me.

NETWORKERS

Don’t we all feel like we like we could all do a little more recruiting?

Would it really kill us to sit at our desk an hour a night and dial the phone and be ‘present’?

Can’t make up for the past, you know, all those times we were making ourselves ‘little to busy’ to just dial?

Why are we always too busy to actually do the with new people?

MOMS

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Speaking to an audience of 10,000 was a dream come true, thanks Mom

 

She encouraged me to dream.

She knew my dreams and encouraged them and me.

She asked me about them.

She found places, like where to get me signed up for Little League, and got me there.

So many countless things.

 

NETWORKERS

We encourage others to dream.

We tell them they have to have a ‘why’

Tell them to write it down.

Do we know their dreams like Mom knew ours?

Do we find articles, pictures and events that support them?

After they do write it down, do we ever, like Mothers do, ask them about it again?

MOMS

Mom was a hands-on-teacher.  Not a school teacher.

IF They Won't Give You Hands On Help?  Bounce
She was hands on, are we?

She was patient.  Persistent.  Insistent.

She never quit when I struggled.  Never.

Yeah, she made me read the directions, sit there while I read them…..and answered a lot of the same questions over and over.

Asked me if I understood them and then she showed me how to do things right….no matter how many times it took.

She taught me skills.

NETWORKERS

Am I a hands on teacher or do I just ‘plug’ them in?

Do I quit on them when they struggle and rationalize it as ‘they don’t want it bad enough’?

Do I make sure they get the directions and make sure they understand them?

Could I be a lot more patient when I have a rep on the phone and they are not ‘up to speed’?

Am I as willing to answer the same questions over and over?

Do I teach skills, hands on or just keep selling the dream?

MOMS

Mom never quit setting an example of excellence, even when people were not looking.

Never.

She never asked me to do anything she was not doing herself.

She was never a ‘do as I say, not as I do’ Mom.

She never quit on me.

NETWORKERS

Do I set an example of excellence?

…..even when others are not looking?

Do I dog it and tell others what to do even though I am not doing it myself?

Am I a ‘do as I say, not as I do’ managing MLMer?

Do I quit on myself and others with the lie that tomorrow I will double up?

MOMS

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My Mom

My Mom had to quit school and take care of her brothers and sisters when her Mom died.

Got her GED in her 50s.

Went to college, studied hard and graduated with highest honors in her 60s.

She was excused from her finals her last year.

Took them anyway, wanted to test herself.

All A’s, of course.

She knew she’d Ace the tests.

Always prepared.  Well in advance.

Pride.

NETWORKERS

Am I staying a student, continuing grow as a person and learn about people and my trade?

Or am I surfing the web for short cuts?

Do I have pride in my profession and performance or do I look for the easier, softer way and pretend I am ‘working smarter, not harder?’

Am I ready for the daily test of growing a business?

Am I prepared to succeed to the point that I know that I will?

Do I have pride in my effort?

MOMS

Manners.

Please and thank you, no elbows the table.

Listen first. Ask for permission to speak, don’t take it.

Respect their needs, forget your wants.

Never talk about people that are not present.

It’s OK to disagree but don’t be disagreeable.

Honesty is the greatest of all manners.

NETWORKERS

Do I have manners?

Do I belittle people mentally or with other reps who do not join?

Do I tell people why I am calling or ‘pretend to be their friend’ so I can use their words against them later to look?

Do I ask if it is OK to tell them about my business?

Am I focused on their needs or just trying to scare them about the future?

Do I listen? Do I take a ‘no’ as graciously as a ‘yes’?

Am I honest?

MOMS

She never hesitated to go the extra mile for us.

Never stopped looking for the extra mile.

NETWORKERS

We have a chance to do this for others everyday AND get paid for it.

Do we look for it?  Take it?

MOMS

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Mom Hiking in Kauai at 89 years-old

Moms have courage.

My Mom by age 89, was legally blind and needed help.

Told her she has 2 choices.

Assisted living or move 6000 miles from Massachusetts to Kauai, HI and live with us.

She’s was living in the town she was born in.

Mom says she’s scared.  Says she’s used to where she lives.  Knows where everything is and it’s comforting.

She packed and she’s here in Kauai.

Courage.  Mom’s have courage.

NETWORKERS

Picking up the phone takes some, ahem, courage.

At least we like to pretend it does.

Not as much as moving 6000 miles to a place you’ve never been to at 89 and blind.

Do I lack courage or am I just lazy?  Mom’s are not lazy.

Rejection? Mom never accepted any obstacle as a reason to let fear determine her life.

MOMS

Moms insisted that challenges are chances to learn and get better.

Winners, she told me, embrace them and grow.

Santa was a Vaudeville Dancer - Her stage name was Nina Thomas and she was famous for tap dancing on her head!
Santa was a Vaudeville Dancer – Her stage name was Nina Thomas and she was famous for tap dancing on her head!

She told me often of how competitive it was when she was dancing in Vaudeville.

Told me that most of the gals and guys felt threatened by challenges but the good ones loved being challenged.

She explained the whiners did not like challenges and did not appreciate being in the game.

I asked her what that meant one time.   “They don’t want it, they just want it to be easy.”

NETWORKERS

Do I embrace challenges?

Do I whine when reps don’t show up?

Not me.  I was trained by the best.

We all were.

Santa Januszewski will be 89 on October 12, 2010.  
Columbus Day.

How appropriate. :-)
 She still has the guts to explore.

 

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I wanted it.   I wanted her to see Kauai, to live in a multi-generational home.

Networking allowed me to step up and doing something special for myself and our Mom.

I wonder how much sooner great things would have happened in the lives of others if I had not made the mistake of thinking Mom knew nothing about Network Marketing?

Like a little boy, I foolishly thought my business was so different that she’d never understand it,

Turns out she knew everything IMPORTANT about it before I was born.

Happy Mother’s Day

UPDATE…..

Mom moved back to Massachusetts in 2012, said she wanted to spend some time there.

Moved into assisted living, didn’t like it at all.  At 91 she said the people there were too old for her.  Old, she said.  Had given up.

Was planning to return in spring of 2013.

Never made it.

She passed away in December.   I flew back for the funeral and it was a fantastic celebration of a life.

believe,

Mark Januszewski

World’s Laziest Networker

POST SCRIPT – What did your Mom teach you that might help others?

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